Something happened to me yesterday that rarely happens. Upon meeting someone new I was thereby encountered with a question which was, “What are you?” My answer, with a bit of hesitation and confusion, was, “I’m a woman. I’m a daughter. I’m a friend. What do you mean what am I?” What was attempting to be asked was what race I am.
Oh yeah. I’m a person of color.
I don’t mind talking about what I am. I’m actually proud of my heritage. It's how others see it in me. What upsets me is that some people are simply ignorant.
The tirade of Native stereotypes were hurled upon me. The classic Pocahontas and Sacagawea comments were made. Singing songs from the Disney movie were sung. And I attempted to be graceful and yet let everyone know that those were not acceptable things to do. I think I was too light hearted but I didn’t want the issue to become a big deal.
But seriously, don’t call me Pocahontas. She has very little to do with who I am. She was a Makota and I am a Klamath. Different tribes. Furthermore, that people only know the Disney story of her life further reveals the ignorance around Native peoples. She was stolen from her people, indoctrinated, converted to Christianity, and presented to England as a ‘civilized savage.’
I’ve been fortunate enough to have been provided opportunities that a lot of people with my racial make up haven’t had. I am abundantly aware of that. But I also greatly understand that oppression that has been placed upon Native people. And because I know and am aware of it, I am extremely indignant towards it. I don’t take it light heartedly. It’s not a whimsical children’s movie to me. It is my reality. I am connected directly, to this day, to Native people who are held back by the oppression of their (and my) ancestor.
Honor people of color by celebrating each individual’s personal experiences. Learn about micro-aggressions. Don’t assume based off of stereotypes and harmful beliefs. I acknowledge and celebrate the person that is Pocohantas. But please, don’t call me by her name. Respect and honor by own indegonaity.
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